Moving Stressing You Out? Self care tips for stress free moving out
Self-care doesn’t have to be elaborate, glamorous or expensive–sometimes it simply means brushing your teeth, eating nutritious food, calling a friend, or planning in advance, in order to care for your future self. To make this process easier, follow our guide for self-care tips during moving, including a less-stress moving checklist, and aftercare tips to address relocation depression.
The psychology of moving is well documented. Moving house is considered one of the most stressful life events by researchers. Even cats and dogs experience moving stress, but unlike humans, we can’t explain to them why it’s happening. No matter how much you love your new home, you might still experience moving anxiety and relocation depression. It is important to practice self-care throughout this transition, so you’ll stress less during your move.
Self-Care Tips to Reduce Moving Anxiety
Try these self-care tactics before, during, and after a move:
- Mindfulness: Can you notice your breath? Is it shallow and quick, or deep and slow? Can you bring your awareness to your toes as you wiggle them each individually? If so, you’ve just practiced mindfulness! Mindfulness is the process of noticing the breath and bringing awareness to the present. Practice mindfulness daily for less stress.
- Exercise: Exercising can help get your mind off an upcoming move. Whether you like to jog, lift weights, or play basketball, exercise warms up your muscles to be ready for the physical activities involved in moving. Focus on working out your legs, arms, and core to help prevent injury if you’ll be doing any heavy lifting on moving day.
- Journaling: Many people enjoy journaling because it helps them think clearly. You might journal before your move, and plan out the logistics of where everything is going to go. You might also take a few minutes to list three things you’re grateful for each day. Try writing positive affirmations like, “I am capable,” “I am hard-working,” or “I’m excited about the future.” It might sound kooky at first, but it can improve your mood and help you cope with moving stress.
- Food and drink: You’re often advised to eat what’s left in your fridge and freezer before a move to avoid food waste. This is sound advice, but don’t feel forced to eat something you don’t enjoy just to get rid of it. Eat nourishing, healthy foods to support your digestion instead, and treat yourself to the occasional pizza or comfort dish. Your body needs energy! Enjoying a cup of coffee or tea is another great ritual. In the time it takes to drink a cup of tea, you can invite yourself to be fully present.
- Ask for help: Moving is usually not a one-person operation. Whether it’s asking a friend to help pack in exchange for pizza, or calling your uncle to borrow his pickup truck, asking for assistance will lighten the load when moving day arrives.
Does Clutter Cause Stress?
For most people, less clutter equals less stress. If you have been in your current home for many years, you probably have lots of extra stuff such as clothes, tupperware, toys, and furniture taking up space and not necessarily “bringing you joy.” If it sounds overwhelming, try setting aside half an hour a day to go through the following item categories:
- Clothes
- Books
- Papers
- Misc. items
- Sentimental
Every piece of extraneous stuff you offload ahead of time will help come moving day. By approaching organization mindfully, and well in advance, you’ll be setting yourself up for success. As for disregarded items, consider holding a garage sale to make some extra cash, or dropping them off at the thrift store for a tax-deductible donation.
Decluttering is a key component of the organization before a move, but it is not the only one. Use a pre-moving checklist to avoid procrastination and plan out an easier move.
Relocation Depression: How to Cope
By now, the anxiety of moving day is over, and depression might be setting in. Relocation depression is common. You’ve likely got hundreds of items to unpack, miss your friends, and are trying to establish yourself in a new city. It’s important to honor the emotions that come up during this disruptive time. If you’re in a funk after moving, try these self-care tips:
- Explore the city. Whether by walk, bike, bus, or car, getting out and exploring is the best way to familiarize yourself with a new place.
- Make new friends: Start by introducing yourself to new neighbors and coworkers, and joining them for social events like happy hours or concerts. Try to approach people with the intention of getting to know them, and ask lots of questions. Dating apps are a great way to meet new people, even if you don’t find a significant other. You may just find a friend!
- Call old friends: Don’t forget to stay in touch with old friends. Just because you moved and won’t see them as often, doesn’t mean you can’t keep those friendships alive until you’re reunited. With social media, there’s no excuse to let good friends slip through the cracks.
- Bringing familiarity into the home. Some people find it comforting to rearrange furniture in a similar way as before, or display beloved objects that remind you of “home.”
- Try something new. Taking up a new hobby can help bolster your identity and build a sense of community. Try signing up for a dance or yoga class; join a club, gym or adult sports league; enjoy the outdoors through hiking; embrace your nerdy side by participating in a game night, or revisit a hobby you loved as a child.
Moving is stressful for many reasons, and it’s easy to let self-care fall to the wayside, but this is truly the time you need it most. Be gentle with yourself and stick to your self-care routine, whatever that looks like. Whether you are moving into your first home, embarking on a cross-country move while changing jobs, moving into your dream house or moving into retirement, a little self-care can go a long way.